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yeah~~tis is de last day of skooling life in methodist skool.......nw we all ned 2 separate 2 mani other place which we can't meet each other everday...so...frd...pls take gd care of uself at another place...God will always be wit u all~~

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yesterday is my most happy day in skool. Coz my classmate help me n my sis celebrate our 19th birthday in class. Tis is de 1st time we celebrate at skool since we study at tis metho skool for 7 year.n tis is also de last time we can celebrate our burthday at skool. It's reli reli happy 4 me yesterday n unforgotable de day even my classmate celebrate my burthday earlier.



Beside we oso receive some present from our beloved classmate. reli thx my classmate 4 de cake n present. i like it veli much!! thanks~~thanks all my beloved frd.... i'm reli happy!1


tis is the love letter tat i receive on my 19th birthday.haha~~ actually nt love letter from guy la.is from gal de. dun misunderstand.haha~~

tis year birthday is reli reli special. i celebrate is 3 times in tis year n oso receive a special present from special ppl...i will remember it..

THANKS A LOT!!

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How to know that Christ is in your life?

Did you receive Christ into your life?

According to His promise in Revelation 3:20, where is Christ right now in relation to you?

Christ said that He would come into your life.

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Would He mislead you?

On what authority do you know that God has answered your prayer?

(The trustworthiness of God Himself and His Word.)

The Bible promises eternal life"The witness is this, that God has given us eternal life, and this life is in His Son. He who has the Son has the life; he who does not have the Son of God does not have life. These things I have written to you who believe in the name of the Son of God, in order that you may know that you have eternal life" (1 John 5:11-13).

Thank God often that Christ is in your life and that He will never leave you (Hebrews 13:5).

You can know on the basis of His promise that Christ lives in you and that you have eternal life from the very moment you invite Him in. He will not deceive you.

An important reminder...

Do not depend on feelings.

The promise of God's Word, the Bible - not our feelings - is our authority.

The Christian lives by faith (trust) in the trustworthiness of God Himself and His Word. This train diagram illustrates the relationship among fact (God and His Word), faith (our trust in God and His Word), and feeling (the result of our faith and obedience) (John 14:21).

Fact Faith Feeling The train will run with or without a caboose. However, it would be useless to attempt to pull the train by the caboose. In the same way, as Christians we do not depend on feelings or emotions, but we place our faith (trust) in the trustworthiness of God and the promises of His Word.

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Now that you have received Christ. The moment that you received Christ by faith, as an act of the will, many things happened, including the following:

- Christ came into your life (Revelation 3:20 ; Colossians 1:27).

- Your sins were forgiven (Colossians 1:14).

- You became a child of God (John 1:12).

- You received eternal life (John 5:24).

- You began the great adventure for which God created you (John 10:10; 2 Corinthians 5:17 ; 1 Thessalonians 5:18).

Can you think of anything more wonderful that could happen to you than receiving Christ?

Would you like to thank God in prayer right now for what He has done for you?

By thanking God, you demonstrate your faith.To enjoy your new life to the fullest...

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Suggestions for Christian Growth Spiritual growth results from trusting Jesus Christ."The righteous man shall live by faith" (Galatians 3:11). A life of faith will enable you to trust God increasingly with every detail of your life, and to practice the following:

G = Go to God in prayer daily (John 15:7).

R = Read God's Word daily (Acts 17:11); begin with the Gospel of John.

O = Obey God moment by moment (John 14:21).

W= Witness for Christ by your life and words (Matthew 4:19; John 15:8).

T = Trust God for every detail of your life (1 Peter 5:7).

H= Holy Spirit - allow Him to control and empower your daily life and witness (Galatians 5:16,17; Acts 1:8).

-----------------------Fellowship in a Good Church-------------------------

God's Word instructs us not to forsake "the assembling of ourselves together" (Hebrews 10:25). Several logs burn brightly together; but put one aside on the cold hearth and the fire goes out. So it is with your relationship with other Christians.If you do not belong to a church, do not wait to be invited. Take the initiative; call the pastor of a nearby church where Christ is honored and His Word is preached. Start this week, and make plans to attend regularly.

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As God's has forgiven your sins and given you eternal life, it is only natural that you'd want to share this with somebody else.God's Word tells us that "whoever confesses Me (Jesus) before men, him I will also confess before My Father who is in heaven" (Matthew 10:32).

This can be as easy as emailing a friend so go ahead and share this with a friend.

1. God Loves You!

The Bible says, "God so loved the world that He gave His one and only Son, that whoever believes in Him shall not perish, but have eternal life." The problem is that..............................................................

2. All of us have done, said or thought things that are wrong.

This is called sin, and our sins have separated us from God.The Bible says “All have sinned and fall short of the glory of God.” God is perfect and holy, and our sins separate us from God forever. The Bible says “The wages of sin is death.” The good news is that, about 2,000 years ago,.....................................

3. God sent His only Son Jesus Christ to die for our sins.

Jesus is the Son of God. He lived a sinless life and then died on the cross to pay the penalty for our sins. “God demonstrates His own love for us in that while we were yet sinners Christ died for us.” Jesus rose from the dead and now He lives in heaven with God His Father. He offers us the gift of eternal life of living forever with Him in heaven if we accept Him as our Lord and Savior. Jesus said "I am the way, the truth, and the life. No one comes to the Father except by Me." God reaches out in love to you and wants you to be His child. "As many as received Him, to them He gave the right to become children of God, even to those who believe on His name." You can choose to ask Jesus Christ to forgive your sins and come in to your life as your Lord and Savior.

4. If you want to accept Christ, you can ask Him to be your Savior and Lord by praying a prayer like this:

"Lord Jesus, I believe you are the Son of God. Thank you for dying on the cross for my sins. Please forgive my sins and give me the gift of eternal life. I ask you in to my life and heart to be my Lord and Savior. I want to serve you always."

Did you pray this prayer?

God has given us His Son Jesus Christ to die for our sins. God loves us and cares for us. Our response to Him is to love Him and worship Him. Jesus taught us that the greatest command is to "love the Lord your God with all your heart, soul, mind, and strength".

We can express our love to God by telling God that we love Him. One way to do this is through worship, through singing and through music. The Bible says "Sing to the Lord". We can praise God for Who He is; we can praise God for what He has done in our lives.

You don't have to have a great voice to sing praises to the Lord. You can focus on God and express your love to Him silently or by singing to God. You can do this in church; you can in addition to church sing or give praises to God when you are by yourself.

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What is Not Love Unfortunately??
we have been trained NOT to love.

How so???
We have superiors or supervisors who in their word or action:
· Abuse us

· Bully us
· Are contemptuous of us
· Use us despitefully
· Envy us

· Hurt us
· Malign us
· Persecute us
· Spiteful to us
· Shout at us
· Threaten us
· Wound us

They justify their behaviour by saying that they have a task to complete on time in this competitive and globalize world. They choose not to be kind and patient. We harbour resentment and our natural reaction when we are in a position of strength is to do the same and more:

· To retaliate in kind
· To hit back with “a tooth for a tooth and an eye for an eye.”
· To seek revenge
· To look for an opportunity to give our subordinate the same treatment that we have received.

We are imprisoned by our hurt. We are easily provoked. We flare into anger quickly. We envy. Unless we reflect and question our reaction, we have been trained NOT to love! And St Paul has defined for us what love is NOT, in that, “love does not envy; love does not parade itself, is not puffed up; does not behave rudely, does not seek its own, is not provoked, thinks no evil; does not rejoice in iniquity, but rejoices in the truth; ” (1 Corinthians 13: 4-7 NKJV)

The passages below are summarized from the book, “Our Lady says: Love People” by Rev. Albert Joseph Mary Shamon.

1. Love does not envy---zelOl means to strive after, to have zeal for one’s own status,

· Love envies no one.
· Love knows no envy.
· Love is not jealous of people.
· Envy or jealousy is a vice nobody likes;

it is so unlovable that when a person has it, he tries to conceal it.
· Envy is sorrow about people’s good fortune.

Instead of rejoicing at someone’s good fortune, envy weeps.
· Envy destroys our peace of mind and it makes us positively miserable.
· To detect envy or jealousy, just ask ourselves these questions:

- Are we chronic critics?

- Are we always sarcastic?

- Do we gossip?

- Do we talk disparagingly about someone’s accomplishment?

- Do we belittle what means a lot to another?

- Do we assassinate people’s character?

- Do we give the silent treatment to our spouse whenever we are unhappy with our spouse’s ways?

2. Love does not parade itself---perperEUetai means to boast or vaunt oneself, to be a braggart.

· Love is not pompous.
· Love is never boastful.

· Love does not brag.
· Love is no braggart.
· A braggart does not feel superior to others but he boasts that he is.
· Boasting can be hurtful and unkind since it diminishes others.

3. Love is not puffed up---phusiOUtai means to puff up, make proud.

· Love is not inflated.
· Love is not conceited.
· Love is not inflated with its own importance.
· Love is not puffed up with pride.
· Pride resides in the heart.

· Pride is inflated egoism.
· Pride is extreme self love.
· Pride smacks of idolatry, for it idolizes self.
· A proud person brooks no criticism, true or untrue.
· Hell has no fury like a proud person scorned.

4. Love does not behave rudely---aschemonE means to behave unseemly.

· Love is not rude.
· Love does not behave gracelessly.
· Love does not behave unpresentably.
· Love is not arrogant or rude.
· A rude person does not treat a person as a human being but as a means to his own ends.
· A courteous person realizes the dignity of the human being and he simply treats each person as a person, as a child of God.
· Rudeness comes from insecurity or weakness, from selfishness or self-centeredness, from lack of training at home or in school.
· Being nice, kind, courteous, polite, good natured, considerate or thoughtful, especially to the weak and helpless, is a cultivated virtue.

5. Love does not seek its own---zetEl means to seek for, seek after.

· Love does not seek its own interests.
· Love is never selfish.

· Love does not insist on its rights.
· Love does not seek its own advantages.
· Love does not insist on its own way.
· A self-seeker may want to serve God, but in his own way, not God’s way.
· A self-seeker pursues the adulation, praise and approbation of others.
· Signs that tell us whether or not we are self-seeking:

- Do we give free rein to our desires and wants?

- Do we let them run wild like an unbridled colt?

- Do we discipline them, tame them and put a check on them?

- Is God in our thoughts?

- Do we try to avoid what is displeasing to God?

- Do we accept without complaint all that God sends us?

6. Love is not provoked----paroxUnetai means to provide, irritate, excite.

· Love is not quick-tempered.
· Love is not quick to take offence.
· Love never flies in a temper.
· Love is not easily irritated.
· Love is not resentful.
· A quick tempered person is one who is easily provoked to anger, one who has a short fuse.
· Hasty temper, impatient rebukes, sullen looks, harsh words, they never do any good!· It took St Francis de Sales years to learn that the best answer to temper is silence.
· When Julius Caesar was provoked, he would repeat the entire Roman alphabet before he would speak as he has found that “the greatest remedy for anger is delay.”
· A quick tempered person can be

(i) Testy ---flaring up at the least annoyance.
(ii) Touchy ---reacting vehemently when certain subjects are broached.

(iii) Irrational---just flying into a rage or fury without reason.

7. Love thinks no evil---loglzetai means to reckon, calculate, compute.

· Love does not brood over injuries.
· Love keeps no score of wrongs.
· Love does not store up the memory of any wrong it has received.
· Love does not calculate evil.
· Love does not record in memory every hurt to repay it later.
· It is foolish to carry hurts like gunnysack on our backs all through life.

8. Love does not rejoice in iniquity, but rejoices in the truth---adikla means a wrong, an offence, injustice and alethEla means truth.

· Love does not rejoice over wrongdoing but rejoices with the truth.
· Love does not gloat over other men’s sins.
· Love finds no pleasure in evil-doing.
· Love does not rejoice in injustice.
· There are human vultures who gloat over other’s shortcoming, who rejoice over the failures of others, who glorify the vices of lust and immorality.

(i) To be good at anything we have to spend time and effort studying and practicing it.

(ii) To be loving we need to know what love is and what love is NOT.

(iii) We should not confuse love with the Hollywood-type-of movie love.

What then is love?
True love at its very basic is:
1.(a) Patient Do I accommodate his/her views, his idiosyncrasies and his ways of doing things?
(b)Can(a I overlook his shortcomings or faults?
(c)Will I be able to bear the blame and accusation?
(d)Can I accept him as he is?

2.(a) Kind Do I have a kind heart towards him/her?
(b)Do I strive to make him happy?
(c)Do I uplift his spirit when he is anxious or depressed?
(d)Am I tender hearted towards him?

3. Forgiving Mother Teresa says, “We must make our homes centers of compassion and forgive endlessly.” (“A Gift for God”, 18)
(a)Do I try to forgive endlessly at home?
(b)Do I harbor grudges over a long period of time?
(c)Do I hold on to resentment?
(d)Do I keep a record of wrongs he has done to be used against him?
(e)Do I try to forgive and forget?

4.(a)Self-giving Do I make self-sacrifice for him/her?
(b)Am I generous towards him? Can I give in to the relatively unimportant comments and arguments?
(c)Do I give up my preferences, goals, comfort, time and energy for him?

5.(a)Encouraging Am I always encouraging or am I critical towards him/her?
(b)Do I affirm him?
(c)Am I his cheer leader?
(d)Do I see his potential or do I see him as he is?
(e)Do I constantly find ways to praise him?
(f)Have we spent the time to cultivate and nurture these qualities or are we so engrossed with making a living that we don’t bother about such things?
(g)How then can we be good at loving?

Ultimately relationship, not what we achieved or acquired, is what matters most in life. So why do we allow our relationships to get the short end of the stick? When our schedules become overloaded, we start skimming---cutting back on giving the time, energy, and attention that loving relationships require. What’s most important to us is replaced by what is most urgent. When life on earth is ending, we don’t surround ourselves with objects. What we want around us is people---people we love and have relationships with. In our final moments we all realize that relationships are what life is all about. Learning this truth sooner rather than later is wisdom. Why then wait until we are on our deathbed to figure out that nothing matters more than a loving relationship?

~~~~~ The End ~~~~~

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